Hello Guys
I am not an expert in marriage but I have seen few many cases where things go wrong and we instantly fall into the web of Divorce.
I am not preaching to stay in bad marriage. After all we all want a happy life.
But before I go further in what all could go wrong. Lets focus on what to do when we are not happy as a couple.
There's a saying " Everything comes with price". Its a very simple quote but so true.
Let me tell you a story of my Friend.
I met my friend last year after 4 years since we passed out of college. She didn't pay attention until I told her Hi seema. How r u?
Long time..where have you been?
She looked up and said Hi Kiran.Sorry for not recognising you at first. I am very upset. I am stuck in bad marriage and I want to get out of it.
I was shocked as seema and shilesh were the best couple in our college so much in love.Shilesh was one of the sweetest guy ever.
What could have gone wrong? I didn't ask her anything just told her to rethink here decision and after 15 minutes of talk we were on our way.
Seems didn't like the job Shilesh was doing. She wanted more and more and his simple lifestyle was boring for her.
I kept thinking about them for days and then got busy in my world.
One day Seema called up and said she got divorced and she is now a free woman. I faked smile and made an excuse to go.It was almost a year
since then and haven't heard from her. I got worried and went back to her place and asked her parents about her whereabouts.
They could not stop themselves from crying. Seema committed suicide last month after a bitter experience with her second husband.
I felt terrible and couldn't say anything.
I am sure Couple who get divorce must have better reasons than my friend. But I have seen Divorce over smaller reason than this.
Think Guys...Think!!! Is it worth all pain??
Kiran
